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In the blink of an eye–My story

I hope you don’t mind, but I’m kinda veering off from my usual interior design/building project post. Today, I’m sharing something entirely different. Today, in light of the date, I’m sharing my story. Nine years ago today, our lives were turned upside down in the blink of an eye!

I remember so much from that tragic day. It is forever engraved in my mind…July 9, 2011, a Saturday morning, sun shining, crisp air, the kids and I still in our pajamas, indulging in some Krispy Kreme donuts, a relaxing morning, excited to get out on our new boat we had just bought a couple weeks earlier. We were all looking forward to a great day ahead.

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Everyone piled into our boat. And we headed out onto the lake. With 8 of us, our boat was only half-way full. It was a boat Corey had dreamed of owning for many years. Designed specifically for wake boarding. It had all the bells and whistles. Corey and Chase (our second oldest son) shared this passion for wake boarding. So they were in awe over this boat. And couldn’t wait to see what all it could do.

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Our friend Jim, who’s lake cottage we were sharing for the summer, tested out his skills first. After a few great runs, he hopped out of the water and Corey jumped in. He was so excited to show me what he had been working on in the early morning hours.

He straps on his board, the boat takes off, and he’s up. Doing great! He’s done this for years. Then he goes into a turn and the edge of his board catches the water just right and smacks him down hard onto the water. We could hear the smack all the way up in the boat, about 30 feet away. I remember Jim saying, “That was a hard hit. I’ve done those before. That hurt.”

We pulled the boat around to Corey. Our youngest son, Grayson (3 at the time) said, “Are you alright, daddy?” Corey responded, “Ya, I’m alright.” Ty, our second youngest, (5 at the time) said, “That had to hurt.” And at that moment, Corey’s head fell back into the water and he lost consciousness.

By this time, we had floated further away from Corey. So, we had to get the boat back over to him. But, unbeknownst to us the rope was wrapped around the board. Therefore, everytime we gave the motor gas, we pulled Corey under water. Now he wasn’t only unconscious, but he was also taking in water…essentially drowning.

Jim jumped in and swam out to Corey. With his wetsuit dragging him down and no lifejacket, Jim was running on adrenaline to pull Corey back to the deck of the boat. That whole scene is vivid in my mind, but yet a whirlwind of mass confusion at the same time.

During this time, I was on the phone with 911. I think I was in shock, because I had a hard time giving the dispatcher the details of where we were and exact details of what was going on. I was also trying to console my children at this time. Chase was in shock and the two younger ones were very scared.

We finally got Corey situated onto the diving platform of the boat. Jim stayed back there with him to hold his head up, so he wouldn’t take in more water, while his wife, Kris drove us back to shore. This was the longest trip ever. Everytime we tried to speed up, water would rush up onto the platform, so we had to go very slow.

When we eventually made it back to the cottage, we had to wait a little while for the ambulance to arrive. This felt like an eternity–although it probably wasn’t that much time at all. The whole time Corey was unconscious, he was making motorboat noises with his lips and clenching his arms close to his body. I would later find out the devastating reason why his body was reacting in this way.

The ambulance finally arrived and they immediately told me to head straight to Parkview Hospital. He needed to be life-flighted. I grabbed Auston and Chase (the two older boys) and left the younger ones with Jim and Kris. We made the one hour trek from Coldwater, Michigan to Fort Wayne in less than 45 minutes.

Praying and crying with my flashers on the whole way…motioning for people to move over. For much of the drive, I drove on the shoulder. Looking back, God really had a hedge of protection over us. I was going speeds I didn’t know my truck was capable of going. My poor boys were in the back seat praying not only for their dad, but also for our own lives.

When we made it safely to the hospital, Auston was in such shock, a girlfriend of mine took him home with her. But Chase wanted to stay. We were led to a room. “The room” where they tell you bad news.

The doctor came in, sat down and told us the bleak news. I remember pieces of it. By this point, my mind was in such a fog. Severe traumatic brain injury; subdural hematoma; high probability he won’t make it; we’ll do what we can.

Chase lost it. My mom lost it. I hardly reacted. I couldn’t even believe what I was hearing. This couldn’t be real. Any moment I was going to wake up from this nightmare. I had to stay strong for Chase. Deep deep shock.

We were allowed to see him one last time before they took him for surgery. We were led into a very cold, sterile room. Corey was laying on a table with many people working quickly around him. Chase saw his dad and couldn’t hold back the tears. He was trying so hard to be strong, but the reality of the moment set in and he turned his back and the tears came fast. A very kind nurse came over to him immediately and talked with him and comforted him. She was so good. I’ve never been able to remember her name…but I wish I could…I would love to tell her, “thank you.”

Every so often Corey would move his arms close to his body. I thought this was a good sign–awareness. I soon learned it was not good at all. It meant he had severe damage to the brain.

While my mom and I were talking to him and I was leaned over close to his face, a tear ran down his cheek. I knew he could hear us. My heart was completely broken.

He was my everything. How could I possibly do life without him? He had to pull through this. We needed him. We had just been laughing and having a great time only a couple hours ago. Our lives completely changed in the blink of an eye. Was this really happening? It was all so surreal.

We said our “I love you’s” and headed out to the lobby. I was overwhelmed to see the entire room packed full of family and church family. It was unbelievable. It gave me strength and comfort to know we were not alone and so many people were praying, loving and supporting us.

A couple hours later the neurosurgeon came out with the news…”he made it through surgery. The next 72 hours would be very critical. I think he has a good chance of pulling through. BUT it will be a hard road ahead.”

I remember looking at my sister, with tears in my eyes and saying, “He’s still here, we can do hard.”

And hard we did for the next year +. Corey spent about 4 weeks in the hospital and then 5 weeks in intensive aphasia therapy in Chicago. Following all of the inpatient care, he spent the next year in outpatient therapies. Surprisingly, during this time, I discovered my passion for woodworking/interior design. 

Fast-forward 9 years! Wow! Can’t believe it’s been that long! And here we are today…If you met Corey, initially, you probably wouldn’t notice his deficits. He’s able to walk and talk. So thankful. As the conversation progressed, you would start to pick up cues. Language can be hard for him. He has a hard time finding the right word for many things and will often work his way around a word. Comprehension is his biggest struggle. As you got deeper into the conversation, you might notice, but you might not, that he’s not fully following what you’re saying. He’s learned how to compensate very well.

We are so thankful to still have Corey with us. And really enjoy our free time to travel and do life together. God is good! He has blessed us in so many ways. I could truly go on and on with all of the miracles God has done over these last 9 years. So grateful!!

 

 

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  1. Susan C Kennedy says

    January 27, 2020 at 1:05 pm

    So how is Corey now? Praying he is ok.

    Reply
    • Nicole Nigg says

      January 27, 2020 at 6:02 pm

      He has made a lot of progress from those early days. He deals primarily with Aphasia (comprehension of language and expressive language deficit). But he has a great attitude about it and still maintains therapy to work on compensation skills. Thank you for asking. God is good! And has brought him a long way. 🙂

      Reply
  2. Brenda says

    August 3, 2020 at 4:22 pm

    A thought just occurred to me… have you ever tried sign language with Corey? I know he’s not hearing impaired but the very act of signing provides a different pathway to the brain (and from the brain). Please disregard if this just sounds silly.

    Thanks for sharing your story. I’m sorry for the trauma your family has experienced.

    Reply
    • Nicole Nigg says

      August 4, 2020 at 4:37 pm

      Hi Brenda,
      Not silly at all. I’ve read about many different avenues of communication with Corey and have always been open to new ideas.
      The brain is such a complex thing. Unfortunately, learning new tasks like that is very difficult for him. He still participates in weekly speech therapy to work on new strategies, which he really enjoys. Thank you for reaching out. I greatly appreciate it!
      Nicole

      Reply
  3. Amanda says

    September 19, 2020 at 8:57 pm

    Wow, thanks for sharing your story. I just found your blog and this was the first thing I clicked on. What a blessing that he made it through and is able to walk and talk. My dad had a really bad stroke in 2018. He was in the woods when it happened and no one knew where he was. Then he spent the next 3 months in the hospital almost dying a couple of times. My parents had a business that only my dad ran so not only were we making the hour drive back and forth to the hospital every day we were also trying to run their business. All this to say that I understand how hard it is, my dad is not the same guy. His comprehension is not the same, and he doesn’t drive anymore or do many of the things he used to. However we still have him and I am so thankful to God for that!

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    • Nicole Nigg says

      September 24, 2020 at 12:46 pm

      Hi Amanda,
      I’m so sorry for all that you and your family have been through. Thankful that your dad, though he’s not the same guy-I understand, pulled through.
      Thank you for reaching out,
      Nicole

      Reply
  4. mk says

    September 28, 2020 at 1:40 pm

    You, your husband’s strength, and your projects are inspiring! I’m so sorry it happened, but I’m so glad for you something good came out of it. I’m sure the days are hard, but your spirit is amazing!

    Reply
    • Nicole Nigg says

      September 30, 2020 at 10:49 am

      Hi Mary Kathryn,
      Thank you so much for your kind words. God is good, all the time! He has been faithful and I can’t imagine walking through all of this without him.
      Thank you for reaching out 🙂
      ~Nicole

      Reply
  5. Michelle H. says

    November 14, 2020 at 3:04 pm

    Nicole, I just found you through Pinterest when looking to do a makeover on my fireplace! I sent you an email before reading your story. I too and my youngest son (15 at the time) have been led into “The Room” after my husband suffered a massive heart attack and we didn’t know if he was going to pull through ( luckily he did to after a quadruple bypass). I admire the strength you have for your husband and your children and am so glad that your husband is here to see it too! Best wishes for you both and your wonderful family!

    Reply
    • Nicole Nigg says

      November 17, 2020 at 4:07 pm

      Thank you Michelle. Sounds like you and your family have been through a lot too. It definitely helps to make us stronger.
      Prayers to you and your family too.
      ~Nicole

      Reply
  6. Cheryl Wood says

    December 15, 2021 at 7:21 pm

    It’s amazing what prayer, love, strength, and our belief and faith in God can do.

    I am so sorry what Corey, his family, you, and your family have been through. I know it was hard at times, but God gave everyone the strength not to give up hope.

    It is wonderful that Corey is doing much better and I’m sure that all of your family are closer now more than ever.

    Keeping all of you in my prayers.
    Cheryl

    Reply
    • Nicole Nigg says

      December 15, 2021 at 11:07 pm

      Hi Cheryl,
      Thank you for your kind words and prayers. God is good. We are so very grateful for how far He has brought us.
      Truly blessed,
      Nicole

      Reply

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